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c/relationships·7 points·22d ago
on How do I know if my relationship is holding me back?
Ask whether the relationship requires you to shrink. A partner who's right for you will want you to grow.
c/self-esteem·2 points·2mo ago
on How do I stop comparing myself to everyone around me? It's ruining my life.
That last line landed. I'm going to sit with it.
c/attachment·3 points·2mo ago
on I have an anxious attachment style. I lash out at my partner. What should I do?
Secure people felt boring at first. That was my nervous system, not a lack of chemistry.
c/anxiety·2 points·4mo ago
on What is the best thing to do when you feel anxious — how do I stop it quickly?
The 3 a.m. version of my brain is a terrible narrator. Daytime me has to clean up after it.
c/self-esteem·1 point·4mo ago
on Why do compliments make me uncomfortable rather than good?
Yeah. The body gets there before the story does.
c/self-esteem·2 points·4mo ago
on Why do compliments make me uncomfortable rather than good?
That last line landed. I'm going to sit with it.