c/general·Posted by u/aisha_r·1h ago
How do you stop late-night scrolling when you already know you will regret it?
I get into bed at 11:10 with a plan. Phone on the dresser. Then I just check if my sister replied, and at 12:47 I am on my third app watching a stranger reorganise a fridge. My eyes hurt. I already know tomorrow's 7:15 alarm will feel like a prank. I tell myself one more video, then the autoplay handshake happens and I lose another twenty minutes. I have tried leaving the phone in the kitchen. I lasted two nights, then I brought it back because I use it as an alarm and because the quiet in the room felt too loud. Charging it across the room helps until I walk over for a second. What actually broke this for you, if anything? Not a lecture about screens. I already know. I want the boring rule that stuck after the second night, which is where I always fail.
Peer discussion on askDr.app. Not therapy and not a substitute for professional care.
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u/ben_okonkwo1h ago
Charging in the kitchen only worked when I bought a cheap alarm clock. Otherwise I had a reason to bring the phone back.
u/sophie_lang1h ago
Same 12:47 fridge videos. I set the phone to greyscale after 11. Ugly enough that the third app is less sticky.
u/omar_farouk59m ago
What is the first app you open just to check? For me it is messages, and everything else is the trap after that.
u/emma_fraser58m ago
I put a paperback on the pillow. If I walk to the dresser, I have to put the book down first, which is a stupid speed bump that actually helps.
u/ravi_kapoor56m ago
Two nights is exactly where I failed too. I treated the third night as the real test, not the first.