c/general·Posted by u/malik_j·14h ago
How do you pick one hobby and stick with it instead of buying supplies and quitting?
There is a watercolor set in my drawer from January, a cheap guitar in the corner with two strings that are fine, and a running app I opened four times in March. I am not collecting hobbies. I am collecting almosts. Last Saturday I almost bought a knitting kit because a video made it look like peace. I put the kit back when I remembered the watercolors. I want one thing I return to when my head is noisy. I keep starting like a person who will become someone else by Tuesday. What made you stay with something boring long enough that it became yours?
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u/sophie_lang13h ago
Walking. No kit. Same block. I was insulted by how simple it was. I still do it because I cannot lose the supplies.
u/nora_klein12h ago
I allowed myself to be bad for three months. No posting, no progress photos. The guitar is still ugly. I pick it up.
u/chris_moretti12h ago
Did you quit because you got bored, or because you were not good yet and that felt like failing in public even alone?
u/sam_whitaker11h ago
I put the watercolors on the table, not in the drawer. Visible beats motivated. I still skip weeks. I skip fewer.