Why does anxiety always get worse at night?

I can coast through work and errands and feel almost normal. Then the house goes quiet around 10 or 11 and my brain turns into a courtroom. Every small thing from the day gets a replay. My chest gets tight. My thoughts speed up. Nothing new happened — it is just night. I have tried earlier bedtimes, podcasts, leaving a light on. Some nights help a little. Most nights it still hits the second I stop moving. Does anyone else feel like anxiety waits until you finally sit still?

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u/mia_k 20h ago
because the distractions stop. my brain saves everything for 11pm.
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u/jay_m 20h ago
same. I can be fine all day then the second I lie down my chest gets tight.
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u/leo_petrov 19h ago
I hate that I do this. I replay every awkward thing I said since 2014.
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- u/nina_b 18h ago
  @leo_petrov the 2014 thing is too real. I thought I was the only one with old highlight reels.
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u/rosa_alvarez 20h ago
the quiet is the worst part for me. I started leaving a fan on. not even for noise. just so it is not so silent.
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- u/sam_whitaker 19h ago
  @rosa_alvarez yes the fan thing. I use rain sounds. my brain needs something to hold onto.
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u/ben_okonkwo 17h ago
nights are bad but early mornings are worse for me. waking up already scared.
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