c/anxiety·Posted by u/sophie_lang·1h ago

How do I stop replaying one awkward conversation in my head at 2am?

I said something slightly off in a group chat around 9pm. Nothing cruel. Just a joke that didn't quite land. I went to bed anyway. At 2:10am I was staring at the ceiling fan, running the exact wording on a loop like I could edit a message that already sent. I drafted three follow-up texts in my head, none of which I sent, and still felt like I'd ruined the friendship. Morning me knows that's oversized. 2am me is convinced I need to apologize for existing. I even picked up my phone, opened the thread, and put it back on the nightstand without typing. That's progress I guess, but I still lost two hours. How do people shut the replay off when the conversation was actually small?

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