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c/relationships·5 points·23d ago
on How do I know if I am done with a relationship?
Saving this. I've been circling the same thought for months.
c/attachment·5 points·26d ago
on What does a secure attachment actually feel like? I've never had one.
The urge to 'get ahead of the abandonment' is so sneaky. Awareness helps; it doesn't erase it overnight.
c/relationships·8 points·1mo ago
on How do I know if my partner truly loves me for who I am?
If you're the only one reading the books and starting the talks, that's data too.
c/personality·3 points·2mo ago
on Why is emotional dysregulation in BPD so misunderstood?
A label helped me get language. It didn't give me a personality transplant, and I needed both truths.
c/relationships·17 points·2mo ago
Watch the pattern, not the moments. He'll show you who he is consistently — not just when he wants something or when you're upset.
c/personality·6 points·4mo ago
on Does having a personality disorder mean I'll always struggle in relationships?
A label helped me get language. It didn't give me a personality transplant, and I needed both truths.