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c/relationships·1 point·22d ago
on How do I know if my relationship is holding me back?
Repair after a fight told me more about the relationship than the fight itself.
c/self-esteem·1 point·2mo ago
on How do I build self-esteem when everything in my life feels like proof that I'm not good enough?
Yeah. The body gets there before the story does.
c/attachment·5 points·2mo ago
on I have an anxious attachment style. I lash out at my partner. What should I do?
I also had anxious attachment. The key was taking ownership of my needs rather than seeking parental love in adult relationships. Learning to meet my own needs changed everything.
c/self-esteem·2 points·5mo ago
The 'not weakness' part is what I keep forgetting in the moment.