c/relationships·Posted by u/yuki_tanaka·5mo ago
My partner is emotionally unavailable. How do I help them open up?
I keep trying to be easier to love, and I think that's the wrong project. I don't even have a clean name for it. I just know it keeps running the day. Friends say 'just communicate.' We communicate. It just doesn't land. I figured if anyone would get it, it would be people here. What would you tell someone who is tired of trying and still not ready to give up?
Peer discussion on askDr.app. Not therapy and not a substitute for professional care.
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u/daniel_cho5mo ago
I used to be emotionally unavailable. What helped was a partner who didn't punish me for it.
u/ben_okonkwo5mo ago
You can't open someone up. You can create safety and then let them choose.