c/relationships·Posted by u/nate_feldman·3mo ago

How do you know when a relationship is actually over vs. just going through a hard phase?

We can have a decent week and still slam into the same argument like it was waiting for us. I don't even have a clean name for it. I just know it keeps running the day. I'm not looking for a villain. I am looking for whether this can actually change. I figured if anyone would get it, it would be people here. What would you tell someone who is tired of trying and still not ready to give up?

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