c/anxiety·Posted by u/maya_patel·1h ago

Why do waiting rooms spike my anxiety even for boring routine checkups?

It's not the appointment. It's the chairs. I sat in the beige waiting room on Maple Street last Friday for a totally routine bloodwork visit and my hands went cold before they even called my name. Magazines, fish tank, that TV on mute with captions. I kept checking the clock on the wall like I was late for something I was already sitting at. Every time a door opened I jumped a little, then felt embarrassed, then jumped again. The actual blood draw was nothing. I walked out fine. It's the waiting that loads me up, like my body thinks the delay means bad news. I've started arriving later so I sit less, and then I worry I'm late. Anyone else more anxious in the waiting room than in the exam room?

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